You should easily be able to get five pics, and not just ones of his dick. From my vast, vast experience using Grindr and other apps, here are eight tips to help you feel safe and comfortable when you go to meet a guy IRL.Įvery person who's real on Grindr (and not catfishing) has multiple pics. There are obviously huge risks involved in having anonymous sex with people you meet on an app, both in terms of physical safety and getting robbed. I love sexual encounters like this, but needless to say, you have to be careful if you're planning on trying it out. I can't even count the number of times when I've met a guy on Grindr, and he's left his apartment door unlocked-or even given me the code to get into this apartment-and I've found him tied to his bed, completely nude, and blindfolded. For many queer men, the element of fear and 'Who's this guy going to be?' is arousing. Not only are we talking to strangers, we're meeting them in a closed-off space to bone.īut that's what makes it so hot. We're doing the exact opposite of what our parents taught us while growing up.
Many times, we have no idea what he actually looks like before we get there. After exchanging as few as 30 words and sending a picture of our junk, we go to a complete stranger's house to have sex. Gay and bi men have normalized an absolutely wild phenomenon.
